I just did something that I wish I hadn't done...
I looked at the calendar and realized we only have three weeks and a few days left of our Summer break from school. Pretty soon, the kids will go into detox (read that here, lol) and I'll be busy shuffling my subbing job, the accounting office job, my PTO volunteering along with just being a mom.
I must send out my email, to make sure the school has moved the kids' anti-static mats they use for the computers. These mats must be grounded by someone from the main campus (maintenance department) but need to be put into their classrooms in advance.
Oh I vow to lie by the pool all day for as many days as the weather will permit and/or enjoy my babies, because I'm sad that this will end soon! (insert wailing)
Friday, July 27, 2012
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Reminding her she's deaf
As I turned on my phone for the first time today, you know, to check facebook-because it's one of the most important parts of my day (lol), the kids ran into the lake to swim and play. Gman went in one direction and the little lady went in another. We were practically the only people there (at nine-thirty in the morning). I did see a couple of little girls about thirty feet away playing Marco Polo as their voices echoed across the empty beach.
I listened intently to the kids as both tried to catch fish (with their hands) and soon I heard the girl say, "I got one." She was near the little girls at this point and I knew B didn't have her cochlear implants on so I watched and listened. Brook said to them, "I caught a fish, it might be dead, I'm not sure." And she looked down and stared at the fish. Unknown to her the little girls were full of conversation, "put in the water," they said, "if it floats, it's dead."
Brook told them it was dead and threw it and swam back in our direction. No big deal. However, on the way home, I heard her telling her brother about it. She told him that she caught a fish, showed it to the girls and the girls ignored her. I had to jump in and tell her what she'd missed. I told her, "Brook, they were talking to you the whole time. You weren't looking at them, you were looking at the fish. You're deaf remember, you have to look at people when you don't have your 'ears' on." Ohhhh, she didn't realize it.
I listened intently to the kids as both tried to catch fish (with their hands) and soon I heard the girl say, "I got one." She was near the little girls at this point and I knew B didn't have her cochlear implants on so I watched and listened. Brook said to them, "I caught a fish, it might be dead, I'm not sure." And she looked down and stared at the fish. Unknown to her the little girls were full of conversation, "put in the water," they said, "if it floats, it's dead."
Brook told them it was dead and threw it and swam back in our direction. No big deal. However, on the way home, I heard her telling her brother about it. She told him that she caught a fish, showed it to the girls and the girls ignored her. I had to jump in and tell her what she'd missed. I told her, "Brook, they were talking to you the whole time. You weren't looking at them, you were looking at the fish. You're deaf remember, you have to look at people when you don't have your 'ears' on." Ohhhh, she didn't realize it. Thursday, July 19, 2012
The Country Sky
Even though it's not near finished, I had to give you a peek at my new website. I introduce my new space that will have almost anything under the country sky...such as frugal living, stay at home mommy stuff, work from home data, my personal things along with blog highlights...
The Country Sky
go ahead, click on it and check it out!
The Country Sky
go ahead, click on it and check it out!
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Interpreting
Last week, my child finally cleaned her room that actually passed inspection. This earned her a sleep-over! I allowed her to invite one friend over for the night. This little girl was in her classroom last year and they had become very good friends. This was the first person (aside from a cousin) who actually has slept over at our house. I've not let my children sleep over away from family yet (I'll get there one day). As you might have guessed, she is a child of average hearing. Brooklyn had been to her swimming party the week prior to this so I decided to back off a little when the two went swimming at my house. I told myself to skip the interpreting if possible to see how the hearing child would communicate with the deaf child and vise versa since my little girl removes her hearing devices during swimming or showering.
They did great! It didn't take the hearing child very long until she was gesturing, pointing, and flapping her arms just like we do. They had a ball and actually had two full days of each other before we reluctantly gave the child back to her family. Hopefully it was a great incentive for Brook to keep her room clean! So far so good. And yes, those are waterproof ear plugs in her ears...she was actually recovering from an ear infection.
They did great! It didn't take the hearing child very long until she was gesturing, pointing, and flapping her arms just like we do. They had a ball and actually had two full days of each other before we reluctantly gave the child back to her family. Hopefully it was a great incentive for Brook to keep her room clean! So far so good. And yes, those are waterproof ear plugs in her ears...she was actually recovering from an ear infection.
Friday, July 13, 2012
Torn Apart
We are having a major issue here in Alabama with hearing impaired children and AVT services. In the past, Early Intervention (birth-three for those who have the potential to fall 25% below peers w/out disabilities or those with actual diagnosed disabilities-for the correct definition, click here) In the past, an EI coordinator had worked in the building of our local HEAR Center where many happy children and happy parents receive services for audiology and AVT (auditory verbal therapy). This is part of Children's Hospital and a preferred clinic for many parents and in the past EI has been very supportive of their services.
To give you an idea of how they work, a child is usually diagnosed with the hospital, seen by the ENTs who specialize in hearing loss in children, get proper advice from the professionals as to their many options from sign language, cued speech, Auditory Verbal therapy vs. Speech Therapy, etc. and other options such as hearing devices like Baha, Cochlear Implants from various companies, hearing aids, and other options. For those seeking the cochlear implant route, they usually require families who are eligible to use an AVT in their office who can not only provide the proper therapy, but help the in-house Audiologists getting proper MAPping for their implants or proper adjustments for hearing aids, etc. I've personally been there when one of my children were in therapy, the AVT determined they needed to boost a certain sound for them, and all we had to do is walk across the hall, take five minutes and get that adjustment, and then go back and finish therapy. I personally found this vital for the first year or so after my kids received their hearing devices.
The AVTs are in a clinic setting, but parents go back with the child and are trained how to continue therapy outside the clinic doors, with pretend play from everything from swimming, grocery shopping, bedtime routines, almost anything you can think of using the children, parents, therapists and pretend kitchens, dolls, toys and games of just about any subject you can imagine without having to actually take you through a store, or sit through a bed time routine or going shopping with the family...very similar to the way some EI Speech Pathologist would do inside the doors of a home however not all are not trained in the Auditory approach, they are simply Pathologists. Most therapists would use the pretend play to teach the children and parents no matter what room they are actually located in. The only difference is that in the clinic, they are certified in AVT whereas most used in EI are not. My opinion is the few that have some knowledge of the AV approach can't possibly take on the additional work load for these kids for weekly therapy.
As of late, EI has determined to pull AVT from select families and justify it by saying that using the HEAR Center clinic, is not a natural environment. I just have a problem with that IF THE PARENTS who are the team leaders prefer this setting. Afterall, aren't we, as parents the child's natural environment? Aren't we attending and learning from the therapists? Aren't we doing "homework" and returning week after week with progress? Even though my family graduated therapy years ago, my heart goes out to these families who use EI and the HEAR Center and now are faced with services being pulled. The HEAR Center itself are co-creators of the group PEEPs (Parents Educating and Encouraging Parents) a state-wide parent mentoring group which I also helped develop. They are really dedicated to these kids first and foremost and knowing that EI pulling kids away from this clinic because they can't offer in-home visits is absurd to me. I feel like it is EI who needs to read the clause in IDEA Part-C which states that some kids can't get the best results from therapy in a natural environment so if the TEAM decides that it is proper to visit a clinic, so be it. At least that's the way I understood it. I also feel like removing services without the full team (especially team leaders) is also non-compliant.
Parents are also finding out that their insurances will only cover a portion of the visits that are also in limited number and come to find out EI has been billing their insurance all this time and now they are down to half a year left with very few visits left that insurance will cover. So in my opinion, EI needs to use the Federal Funds they were given to cover these visits and not bill their insurance since many of them are going to be stuck using this vital insurance and paying out of pocket to continue their certified Auditory Verbal Therapy where they CHOOSE to have it.
The good news, is that parents know this isn't right. They are fighting, they have ADAP on their side, and are already making great progress in this EI debacle. I also feel like this is a great opportunity for these families to look at the Alabama School for Hearing. My hope is that this will be an opportunity for this great school to grow. I would be great for this preschool to be able to expand and help kids younger than preschool age should these services be removed from the clinic as EI wants. That would take lots of money they don't have so I don't see that as an option right now. I'm not sure how this will all work out for them, the families, but it breaks my heart that I have bragged on how lucky we were to have deaf children in Alabama and have such wonderful coordination from all groups and services, and now see how that is falling apart.
And in case anyone from EI or the HEAR center reads this, I am basing all my info from parents....unhappy parents...not from professional opinions. I see desperation in parents who have kids that were flourishing and it's scary to know that removing services, or even reducing or compromising them in anyway, will have a negative affect on the kids. Hoping to get this all resolved soon and wishing those families the best. Always lean toward trusted professionals who keep your CHILD(REN)'s best interest at heart. These are my opinions and I do imagine if EI had proper AVTs in place that COULD go into ALL of these homes WEEKLY as many children need, I may feel differently but they do not. And I also want to stress how important that first year is of MAPping and how easy it was for us having it all there in one office. I do want to say that there are some really really great professionals inside all of these services and clinics. I do not blame the therapists at all. They have tremendous work loads and doing what they can to help and most of them have the kids best interest at heart....my concern is those not working directly with the kids....to be continued, I'm sure.
Good Luck,
Val (PEEPs)
To give you an idea of how they work, a child is usually diagnosed with the hospital, seen by the ENTs who specialize in hearing loss in children, get proper advice from the professionals as to their many options from sign language, cued speech, Auditory Verbal therapy vs. Speech Therapy, etc. and other options such as hearing devices like Baha, Cochlear Implants from various companies, hearing aids, and other options. For those seeking the cochlear implant route, they usually require families who are eligible to use an AVT in their office who can not only provide the proper therapy, but help the in-house Audiologists getting proper MAPping for their implants or proper adjustments for hearing aids, etc. I've personally been there when one of my children were in therapy, the AVT determined they needed to boost a certain sound for them, and all we had to do is walk across the hall, take five minutes and get that adjustment, and then go back and finish therapy. I personally found this vital for the first year or so after my kids received their hearing devices.
The AVTs are in a clinic setting, but parents go back with the child and are trained how to continue therapy outside the clinic doors, with pretend play from everything from swimming, grocery shopping, bedtime routines, almost anything you can think of using the children, parents, therapists and pretend kitchens, dolls, toys and games of just about any subject you can imagine without having to actually take you through a store, or sit through a bed time routine or going shopping with the family...very similar to the way some EI Speech Pathologist would do inside the doors of a home however not all are not trained in the Auditory approach, they are simply Pathologists. Most therapists would use the pretend play to teach the children and parents no matter what room they are actually located in. The only difference is that in the clinic, they are certified in AVT whereas most used in EI are not. My opinion is the few that have some knowledge of the AV approach can't possibly take on the additional work load for these kids for weekly therapy.
As of late, EI has determined to pull AVT from select families and justify it by saying that using the HEAR Center clinic, is not a natural environment. I just have a problem with that IF THE PARENTS who are the team leaders prefer this setting. Afterall, aren't we, as parents the child's natural environment? Aren't we attending and learning from the therapists? Aren't we doing "homework" and returning week after week with progress? Even though my family graduated therapy years ago, my heart goes out to these families who use EI and the HEAR Center and now are faced with services being pulled. The HEAR Center itself are co-creators of the group PEEPs (Parents Educating and Encouraging Parents) a state-wide parent mentoring group which I also helped develop. They are really dedicated to these kids first and foremost and knowing that EI pulling kids away from this clinic because they can't offer in-home visits is absurd to me. I feel like it is EI who needs to read the clause in IDEA Part-C which states that some kids can't get the best results from therapy in a natural environment so if the TEAM decides that it is proper to visit a clinic, so be it. At least that's the way I understood it. I also feel like removing services without the full team (especially team leaders) is also non-compliant.
Parents are also finding out that their insurances will only cover a portion of the visits that are also in limited number and come to find out EI has been billing their insurance all this time and now they are down to half a year left with very few visits left that insurance will cover. So in my opinion, EI needs to use the Federal Funds they were given to cover these visits and not bill their insurance since many of them are going to be stuck using this vital insurance and paying out of pocket to continue their certified Auditory Verbal Therapy where they CHOOSE to have it.
The good news, is that parents know this isn't right. They are fighting, they have ADAP on their side, and are already making great progress in this EI debacle. I also feel like this is a great opportunity for these families to look at the Alabama School for Hearing. My hope is that this will be an opportunity for this great school to grow. I would be great for this preschool to be able to expand and help kids younger than preschool age should these services be removed from the clinic as EI wants. That would take lots of money they don't have so I don't see that as an option right now. I'm not sure how this will all work out for them, the families, but it breaks my heart that I have bragged on how lucky we were to have deaf children in Alabama and have such wonderful coordination from all groups and services, and now see how that is falling apart.
And in case anyone from EI or the HEAR center reads this, I am basing all my info from parents....unhappy parents...not from professional opinions. I see desperation in parents who have kids that were flourishing and it's scary to know that removing services, or even reducing or compromising them in anyway, will have a negative affect on the kids. Hoping to get this all resolved soon and wishing those families the best. Always lean toward trusted professionals who keep your CHILD(REN)'s best interest at heart. These are my opinions and I do imagine if EI had proper AVTs in place that COULD go into ALL of these homes WEEKLY as many children need, I may feel differently but they do not. And I also want to stress how important that first year is of MAPping and how easy it was for us having it all there in one office. I do want to say that there are some really really great professionals inside all of these services and clinics. I do not blame the therapists at all. They have tremendous work loads and doing what they can to help and most of them have the kids best interest at heart....my concern is those not working directly with the kids....to be continued, I'm sure.
Good Luck,
Val (PEEPs)
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Still Amazed
She stood before me as a two year old child. I outstretched my hand because the day was ending, and darkness surrounded my little country house. She stopped in her tracks, looked at my hand, and her eyes filled with tears. One by one, she removed the cochlear implants that had filled her day with the glorious sounds of Dora, music, her talking dolls and her family. She pulled each pink processor up to her lips and kissed them goodnight and she began to sob. I gave her a confident smile that told her she could have them back in the morning, but I knew she was afraid they'd be gone when she woke, so she cried herself to sleep.
Today, I was reminded of this as I watched the same child, now eight years old, answer a simple question. I had asked her to tell me what happened in church since I unfortunately had to miss when the boy wasn't up to par. This is what she said...
I am still amazed at what all HE gives my family. Of all the times I've not listened in my life...I was given a child who cried when she couldn't. Now she was able to give Mama a Blessing by letting me in on what all The Lord gave our little country church today. No matter what we have or don't have when we wake up each day, He will be there for us. He'll never leave us.
Today, I was reminded of this as I watched the same child, now eight years old, answer a simple question. I had asked her to tell me what happened in church since I unfortunately had to miss when the boy wasn't up to par. This is what she said...
"Oh you missed a lot. Luke said something at the piano. I didn't understand everything he said, but he said something. Somebody's mother got the kids to sing. She was wearing a red shirt. Joel got picked to sing a song. He chose "The Old Rugged Cross" and we all sang it together. We didn't go to Sunday School because so many people kept standing up. Zac also stood and told stories. He talked about the wreck they were almost in with that 18 wheeler the other night. Debbie, Dock, Adam, Luke's wife and some more people sang a good song. Oh, and we aren't having church on Wednesday because it's the Fourth of July."
I am still amazed at what all HE gives my family. Of all the times I've not listened in my life...I was given a child who cried when she couldn't. Now she was able to give Mama a Blessing by letting me in on what all The Lord gave our little country church today. No matter what we have or don't have when we wake up each day, He will be there for us. He'll never leave us.
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